Today i finally got the confirmation of what I already knew already.
'the other woman" really exists, and that is the primary reason he left.

what angers me, is how i super-focused on how I failed him and now i start listing
how he failed me so badly too.

I got so hurt when he my son told me he was not drinking anymore, and i thought to myself, "oh ok, that hurts -- he could never stop drinking for ME..."

And then in the middle of the night he calls me drunk as a skunk (hiccuping even too), and he starts telling me about how he is now in love.

wtf.

And I say, "yeah, sure, so in love, you just came for sex a few days ago, and then the two days before that, then the week before that , and the first week. You are sooooo in love!!!"

And i hung up on him and said, "You know what? You guys deserve each other."


I don't even feel rage like a woman should just about now. i feel so sorry for his pathetic lost soul. Mr Regarding-Henry-but-in-reverse.

i don't feel anger, I just feel sad. i need to do some more research on this
bariatric, 70 percent divorce rate. That's just so high.

ADDICTON TRANSFER

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2006/11/30/think-gastric-bypass-surgery-is-the-quick-fix-think-again/

http://books.google.com/books?id=rhna8BtfufEC&pg=PT146&lpg=PT146&dq=bariatric+surgery+adultery&source=bl&ots=Vp8iQeKxiP&sig=aXkuqxlcrG4oZs4K47O8nH89SqI&hl=en&ei=rMEcS9K1Fc-LlAfy-bDvCQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6&ved=0CCQQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=bariatric%20surgery%20adultery&f=false